DATING,ROMANCE,LOVE AND MARRIAGE - HOW TO MEET THE RIGHT MAN

If youre looking for "Mr. Right", and keep finding "Mr. Give me a Try", then you may not be going about it the right way. The last thing you want, is to become another lonely, desperate soul who chases everyone away because youre trying to get married quickly. If you play your cards right, and can stay calm, cool, and collected, you may improve your chances of finding "Mr. Right". Here are a few tips that I have to offer: First, know what youre looking for. Finding the perfect man should start with a definition of what you call, "Mr. Right". Keep in mind that it will differ from your best friends, and thats okay. That just means the two of you wont be competing (as much!). Dont be surprised if youre sights have been narrowed over the years. Youre just getting a better idea of whom you are compatible with and your chances of success increase with each new parameter. Most of all, dont force something that isnt there. Second, be patient. Theres no rush and rushing into things will only cloud your judgment. Theres nothing wrong with going out with the first person that asks you, but keep that in mind. There will be plenty more, so if he doesnt meet your criteria and seem like the ideal person for you, then youre free to thank him for the great evening and move on. The evening of companionship will be nice, but dont expect him to be the one to remove you from your life of solitude and loneliness. Third, if youre in a relationship and he doesnt fit your criteria, you must reevaluate why you are with him. Just because you have someone to date, doesnt mean that hes the right one for you. Being with him may cause you to miss other opportunities that could send your "Mr. Right" into the arms of another woman. Fourth, if things arent working out --- network. Enlarge your circle of friends and try going out with new people. If you spend most of your time with co-workers, then try to look up old college friends through the alumni association. Join a new gym or start shopping at a new grocery store. "Mr. Right" is out there, you just need to increase your chances of bumping into him. Dont forget to try social networking websites, like Meet2Go.com, parties, wine tasting events, and "fun runs". Fifth, volunteer. Even if youre not turned on by the thought of working for free, if youre not an outgoing person this is a great opportunity to be forced to be socially active with another person, or other people. When choosing events, think first about where youre likely to find "Mr. Right". Will he be working at the local soup kitchen on Saturday morning, or helping walk dogs at the animal shelter? Try and choose something that you think will yield the most success. Sixth, put yourself out there and leave your body position "open to communication". By this I mean go out to coffee shops, books stores, food courts, or city parks. When youre there, leave the seat open next to you and look approachable. Its also helpful to carry "props". By props I mean something that puts you in that place for a reason, and is easy to start a conversation about. Keep in mind, if should be relevant to the area, so sitting in a bookstore twirling a Frisbee on your finger is out of the question, ladies. If men see an opportunity to approach you and ask you a question, or make a comment about a book that youre reading, youre doing the right thing. Seventh, go where men go. If youre shopping for a diamond you dont look in "Claires Boutique" do you? Probably not. Stop by a sports bar on a big game night, wearing a jersey for the local favorite team (remember to remove the tag if you just bought it on your way there!). If you know anything about sports, dont hesitate to dazzle the local men with your intimate knowledge of the passing records for John Elway. If you dont know sports, claim to be there to support a friend and are like watching the game, but admittedly dont know much about it. Your best bet may be to visit Google or ESPN.com and do a little research on whos who in the big game. Eighth, above all else, be yourself. While it may not seem like it all the time, men want to know who you are. The real you is bound to come out and visit sooner or later, so why not make it sooner? If he doesnt like you for who you are, then hes probably not your "Mr. Right". Good luck, and happy dating! About the author: Chloe Miller recomments www.Meet2Go.com: A new friendship and online dating platform. Online Dating LondonPost activities and find partners with similar interests. Online Dating Free, Friends, Activities.