Was there ever a time when the bar or club was a good place to
meet members of the opposite sex? Perhaps in the 1970's but current
research is finding that very few women are "hooking up" with men they
meet at the club. The reasons for this are many, but suffice it to say
men are going to have to dig a little deeper to find the girl of their
dreams! Which brings us to the point, where are the best places to meet
women?
Romantic Networks
The blind date or friend set up has to be one of the most joked about social activities of all time, so it would probably shock you to learn you are over 200% more likely to meet a potential girlfriend through people you know. A big problem on this front, for men anyway, is the shrinking social circle. You see contrary to the social media hype, close social networks have shrunk by nearly a third since 1985.
Therefore, the best way to meet women is to instead focus on meeting people, and these do not have to become close interpersonal friends say researchers. In fact if you are part of a too tightly knit group you are going to have serious issues meeting new women, after all you already know them all! Work on creating some new casual links and by extension you may just find the girl of your dreams.
Interests
Have you ever noticed that men on the prowl tend to wind up with exactly the wrong type of woman? This is because they have forgotten one very important point, their personal interests. Rather than hunting down eligible ladies, dating a couple and then finding out you have very little if anything in common, turn the process around.
Start by looking at the things that interest you. Are you an avid outdoors type? You probably will want to avoid the library as hunting grounds for Ms. Right! Get outdoors more and join some groups that play to your passions and interests. Do you hike, bike or kayak? Do so more often! Perhaps you are more of a gun enthusiast, find a local range or enter some shooting competitions.
Whatever your passion is, by doing it more or learning more, (foreign language class for the world traveler) you put yourself in the position to meet women with similar interests. Other ideas could include, going to the museum, attending a wine tasting, take dancing lessons or even Yoga class.
Forget the Weekend
Have you relegated yourself to only meeting women on the weekend? You may be missing out on some weekly meetings if you do. Where are the women at through the week? Not sitting home in front of the television, more than likely. Women enjoy getting out and attending social events, shopping, practicing hobbies or attending religious events. These are some of the places you will find nice single women, every day of the week.
Conclusion
Dating is harder than it used to be as people are waiting longer to get married and focus much more on their life goals rather than relationships during their 20's. If you are a guy who finds himself alone more Saturday evenings than not, it is time to rethink your approach. Even getting out of your normal routine could spark a romantic interest, so go to the bank branch across town instead of the one three blocks from home. Doing so, will put you in contact with people you have probably never met before!
Romantic Networks
The blind date or friend set up has to be one of the most joked about social activities of all time, so it would probably shock you to learn you are over 200% more likely to meet a potential girlfriend through people you know. A big problem on this front, for men anyway, is the shrinking social circle. You see contrary to the social media hype, close social networks have shrunk by nearly a third since 1985.
Therefore, the best way to meet women is to instead focus on meeting people, and these do not have to become close interpersonal friends say researchers. In fact if you are part of a too tightly knit group you are going to have serious issues meeting new women, after all you already know them all! Work on creating some new casual links and by extension you may just find the girl of your dreams.
Interests
Have you ever noticed that men on the prowl tend to wind up with exactly the wrong type of woman? This is because they have forgotten one very important point, their personal interests. Rather than hunting down eligible ladies, dating a couple and then finding out you have very little if anything in common, turn the process around.
Start by looking at the things that interest you. Are you an avid outdoors type? You probably will want to avoid the library as hunting grounds for Ms. Right! Get outdoors more and join some groups that play to your passions and interests. Do you hike, bike or kayak? Do so more often! Perhaps you are more of a gun enthusiast, find a local range or enter some shooting competitions.
Whatever your passion is, by doing it more or learning more, (foreign language class for the world traveler) you put yourself in the position to meet women with similar interests. Other ideas could include, going to the museum, attending a wine tasting, take dancing lessons or even Yoga class.
Forget the Weekend
Have you relegated yourself to only meeting women on the weekend? You may be missing out on some weekly meetings if you do. Where are the women at through the week? Not sitting home in front of the television, more than likely. Women enjoy getting out and attending social events, shopping, practicing hobbies or attending religious events. These are some of the places you will find nice single women, every day of the week.
Conclusion
Dating is harder than it used to be as people are waiting longer to get married and focus much more on their life goals rather than relationships during their 20's. If you are a guy who finds himself alone more Saturday evenings than not, it is time to rethink your approach. Even getting out of your normal routine could spark a romantic interest, so go to the bank branch across town instead of the one three blocks from home. Doing so, will put you in contact with people you have probably never met before!
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