The great word spoken by many but understood by few. The word
that seems to look mysterious to humanity. I am looking at love from the
dimension that many have neglected or still ignorant of. This love
issue is what has turned many relationships into a desert and marriages
into a wilderness. If only people will take the time and pain to
understand what love really is then our lives and homes will be a haven
of glory.
LOVE the simple word that has TURNED THE LIVES OF MANY INTO MISERIES AND FEW INTO BLISS. Many are searching for their true love, only to discover not all that glitters is gold. Many have gone into countless heart breaking relationships seeking for this JEWEL due to great ignorance of what love truly is. So many think they have it in their relationships only to discover the illusions in what they assume to be love been misled by their fallacious thoughts.
Why the so many chaos in marriages and love relationships today?The rate of divorce is alarming even among highly respected personalities. The youth of this generation are caught in the cobwebs of LUST AND MISTAKE IT FOR LOVE. Sensations has replaced sanctity and sensuality has knocked out spirituality.
Is love real? Where can it be found?So many books have been written on this subject alone but the tears from broken relationships and marriages are even disturbing the angels above. I want to offer my understanding on this subject from a different angle base on my experience in marriage.
Love is not something to be sought after outside yourself. It is within you. You might not believe this. Love has to do with the personal values you place on yourself and the feelings of emotions backing the values. LOVE HAS TO DO WITH VALUES. Your personal values determine your life worth.
Until you understand this, you will never experience lasting inner peace. No man can devalue you when you love God and yourself dearly. YOUR SELF WORTH IS NOT DETERMINE BY OTHERS BUT BY THE PRICE YOU HAVE PLACED ON YOURSELF. When you see yourself the way God sees you no man or woman can make you feel unworthy. God has placed so much in you due to His love for you. You are the ultimate expression of divine love.
Until you love yourself base on your positive values you may Keep on searching for love from outside source. When people cry of broken heart it amazes me greatly. How on earth did your heart got broken if you did not make it cheap?Love does not make you cheap. It makes you unique.
Base on my research on love relationship, many attribute sex to love. That is really naïve. Too many young unmarried youth in a bid to prove their deluded love go into sexual intercourse only to discover to their horror the great emptiness within and the devaluation of such relationships afterwards. ln a to bid to prove your awesome love to a guy you go to bed with him thinking that will make him to love you the more vice versa. Listen to this weird truth SEX IS NOT A PROVE OF LOVE. Sex is really fun that is enjoyed maximally by those who are legally bonded together in holy matrimonyr. In marriage, there are times sexual intercourse becomes boring and done out of duty than out of desire. At such time, your true love definition comes into play.
You need to look deep down within, DO YOU REALLY LOVE YOURSELF?, DO YOU HAVE STRONG VALUES YOU WILL NOT COMPROMISE FOR ANYTHING ON EARTH?WHERE DO YOU DERIVE YOUR JOY OR HAPPINESS FROM?Your ultimate source of joy should come from within not from any external source. It should not come from your spouse either. True love is constant. It can never change.
If what makes you feel loved is base on external factors you will keep on having problems in relationships. GOD IS LOVE IF YOU HAVE HIM THEN IT'S IN YOU. This means love is really a spiritual thing. It takes simple revelation to understand this. Have you ever wondered about that greatest verse in the Scripture in John 3:16?, "FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD. " That is an internally motivated thing. Your love must be internalized before it can be expressed outwardly.
Stop thinking that you must be loved by people, friends, spouse, lovers to feel human. IF YOU LOVE YOURSELF SO MUCH ONLY THOSE WHO ARE OPERATING IN THE LEVEL OF YOUR LOVE FREQUENCY CAN GAIN ENTRANCE INTO THE SECRET CHAMBERS OF YOUR HEART. This is the point where many miss out in this issue of love relationship. If you truly love and value yourself not everyone can be permitted to come into your heart to perform their acts. In a bid to feel loved and accepted you don't let down your guides and guards neither do you compromise your values to please anyone.
In conclusion, you must understand, no one can truly make you joyful or happy constantly. But when you have discovered that true love has to do with divine values on your life and you have accepted yourself for who you are, then you are on the part to know what true love is. It's in you, express it through sound moral conduct and see the same thing flow back to you. God help you.
LOVE the simple word that has TURNED THE LIVES OF MANY INTO MISERIES AND FEW INTO BLISS. Many are searching for their true love, only to discover not all that glitters is gold. Many have gone into countless heart breaking relationships seeking for this JEWEL due to great ignorance of what love truly is. So many think they have it in their relationships only to discover the illusions in what they assume to be love been misled by their fallacious thoughts.
Why the so many chaos in marriages and love relationships today?The rate of divorce is alarming even among highly respected personalities. The youth of this generation are caught in the cobwebs of LUST AND MISTAKE IT FOR LOVE. Sensations has replaced sanctity and sensuality has knocked out spirituality.
Is love real? Where can it be found?So many books have been written on this subject alone but the tears from broken relationships and marriages are even disturbing the angels above. I want to offer my understanding on this subject from a different angle base on my experience in marriage.
Love is not something to be sought after outside yourself. It is within you. You might not believe this. Love has to do with the personal values you place on yourself and the feelings of emotions backing the values. LOVE HAS TO DO WITH VALUES. Your personal values determine your life worth.
Until you understand this, you will never experience lasting inner peace. No man can devalue you when you love God and yourself dearly. YOUR SELF WORTH IS NOT DETERMINE BY OTHERS BUT BY THE PRICE YOU HAVE PLACED ON YOURSELF. When you see yourself the way God sees you no man or woman can make you feel unworthy. God has placed so much in you due to His love for you. You are the ultimate expression of divine love.
Until you love yourself base on your positive values you may Keep on searching for love from outside source. When people cry of broken heart it amazes me greatly. How on earth did your heart got broken if you did not make it cheap?Love does not make you cheap. It makes you unique.
Base on my research on love relationship, many attribute sex to love. That is really naïve. Too many young unmarried youth in a bid to prove their deluded love go into sexual intercourse only to discover to their horror the great emptiness within and the devaluation of such relationships afterwards. ln a to bid to prove your awesome love to a guy you go to bed with him thinking that will make him to love you the more vice versa. Listen to this weird truth SEX IS NOT A PROVE OF LOVE. Sex is really fun that is enjoyed maximally by those who are legally bonded together in holy matrimonyr. In marriage, there are times sexual intercourse becomes boring and done out of duty than out of desire. At such time, your true love definition comes into play.
You need to look deep down within, DO YOU REALLY LOVE YOURSELF?, DO YOU HAVE STRONG VALUES YOU WILL NOT COMPROMISE FOR ANYTHING ON EARTH?WHERE DO YOU DERIVE YOUR JOY OR HAPPINESS FROM?Your ultimate source of joy should come from within not from any external source. It should not come from your spouse either. True love is constant. It can never change.
If what makes you feel loved is base on external factors you will keep on having problems in relationships. GOD IS LOVE IF YOU HAVE HIM THEN IT'S IN YOU. This means love is really a spiritual thing. It takes simple revelation to understand this. Have you ever wondered about that greatest verse in the Scripture in John 3:16?, "FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD. " That is an internally motivated thing. Your love must be internalized before it can be expressed outwardly.
Stop thinking that you must be loved by people, friends, spouse, lovers to feel human. IF YOU LOVE YOURSELF SO MUCH ONLY THOSE WHO ARE OPERATING IN THE LEVEL OF YOUR LOVE FREQUENCY CAN GAIN ENTRANCE INTO THE SECRET CHAMBERS OF YOUR HEART. This is the point where many miss out in this issue of love relationship. If you truly love and value yourself not everyone can be permitted to come into your heart to perform their acts. In a bid to feel loved and accepted you don't let down your guides and guards neither do you compromise your values to please anyone.
In conclusion, you must understand, no one can truly make you joyful or happy constantly. But when you have discovered that true love has to do with divine values on your life and you have accepted yourself for who you are, then you are on the part to know what true love is. It's in you, express it through sound moral conduct and see the same thing flow back to you. God help you.
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