A lot of people complain about not being able to find the right
person for them. The truth is, if you actually open your eyes, heart and
mind, there are people out there who want someone like you. Once you're
with that special someone, you'll find that the harder part is actually
keeping the love with them. There are so many external social factors
like work, friends and family that can get in the way... this love relationship advice might be what you're looking for.
The following sequence of events is what you can expect from most relationships. Most likely, you will be nodding as you read through these, especially if you've been through a few relationships. You meet someone new, perhaps online, perhaps in real life. You go on a few dates with them and the chemistry is there. For the next few months, the relationship is great. You're having fun and you see yourself spending the rest of your life with that person. Then the honeymoon period ends.
A sign that you're getting sick of someone is when you roll your eyes at them. The more you do so, the more you actually think that they're stupid, or their opinion is off... whatever the case, it's a sign that the initial buzz of being in a new relationship is starting to wear off.
If you keep reading, you'll see three points that can put a lot of stress on a relationship early on. These are dangerous because they are disguised as things that often make couples feel happy. The happier they get, the higher up they get, the further they'll fall when things fall apart. As I've read somewhere before, relationships are about suffering. Everyone is going to hurt you. You just have to find someone worth getting hurt for:
1. Expecting too much: don't you think that it's a bit much to expect that your partner is always going to be there for you? I mean sure, you're a couple, but you're still individuals. Your partner isn't perfect. They will you time and time again. Just realize that. Unless they're intentionally doing it, this can be a good thing, because it shows that they're not perfect. It also shows you what a true relationship is like.
Long-term relationships are only for those who are emotionally mature. The honeymoon period is fun, but learning more about your partner and sticking with them through the tough times is what makes or breaks a relationship.
2. It's a long-held belief that men and women might as well be from different planets, the way they go about their communication methods. Men are sometimes unable to express how they feel properly, whereas women can be very expressive to the extent where they just keep expressing it even after they've made their point. Communication isn't only about expression. It's also about understanding through listening. That's the hard part and most people who are in broken relationships can't do that. Take the time to learn to understand them by listening and your relationship will flourish.
3. Don't confuse sex with love: Women tend to look at sex from an emotional perspective whereas men see it from the physical perspective. Women love imagining, men love doing. Put us two together and what you get can vary to a great extent. The common ground that suits both parties is when both sides end up communicating their emotions through the act. True sex is love.
The problem with us guys is that we have an ego. This prevents us from making the most of sex. We see it as a competition, not as the bonding activity that it's meant to be. We're so obsessed with penis size, "being the best she's ever had", etc. Look at it this way: you're being selfish by concentrating on yourself. True men will forget about themselves for a blissful 15-20 minutes and just give their everything to their partner. All they want is you. Can't you just give it to them?
Sex is something that becomes less and less significant as you get older. The experience of sex however will make or break a relationship in the long run. If you simply had sex that was animalistic and emotionless, then you're the partner who you're going to be sleeping next to is someone who you'll find has been a stranger your entire life. Emotions are often accompanied by flaws. Each relationship goes through different emotions and has different flaws. Your relationship will be different. Have a sex life with lots of emotion and you will find that the love you have with your partner will never wane.
Long-term relationships are a challenge for a lot of people. Many people just never make it because their relationship is held together by falsities. That, or they aren't together because they love each other. By avoiding the 3 above traps and following the love relationship advice in this page, hopefully, you will find and keep the one you love.
The following sequence of events is what you can expect from most relationships. Most likely, you will be nodding as you read through these, especially if you've been through a few relationships. You meet someone new, perhaps online, perhaps in real life. You go on a few dates with them and the chemistry is there. For the next few months, the relationship is great. You're having fun and you see yourself spending the rest of your life with that person. Then the honeymoon period ends.
A sign that you're getting sick of someone is when you roll your eyes at them. The more you do so, the more you actually think that they're stupid, or their opinion is off... whatever the case, it's a sign that the initial buzz of being in a new relationship is starting to wear off.
If you keep reading, you'll see three points that can put a lot of stress on a relationship early on. These are dangerous because they are disguised as things that often make couples feel happy. The happier they get, the higher up they get, the further they'll fall when things fall apart. As I've read somewhere before, relationships are about suffering. Everyone is going to hurt you. You just have to find someone worth getting hurt for:
1. Expecting too much: don't you think that it's a bit much to expect that your partner is always going to be there for you? I mean sure, you're a couple, but you're still individuals. Your partner isn't perfect. They will you time and time again. Just realize that. Unless they're intentionally doing it, this can be a good thing, because it shows that they're not perfect. It also shows you what a true relationship is like.
Long-term relationships are only for those who are emotionally mature. The honeymoon period is fun, but learning more about your partner and sticking with them through the tough times is what makes or breaks a relationship.
2. It's a long-held belief that men and women might as well be from different planets, the way they go about their communication methods. Men are sometimes unable to express how they feel properly, whereas women can be very expressive to the extent where they just keep expressing it even after they've made their point. Communication isn't only about expression. It's also about understanding through listening. That's the hard part and most people who are in broken relationships can't do that. Take the time to learn to understand them by listening and your relationship will flourish.
3. Don't confuse sex with love: Women tend to look at sex from an emotional perspective whereas men see it from the physical perspective. Women love imagining, men love doing. Put us two together and what you get can vary to a great extent. The common ground that suits both parties is when both sides end up communicating their emotions through the act. True sex is love.
The problem with us guys is that we have an ego. This prevents us from making the most of sex. We see it as a competition, not as the bonding activity that it's meant to be. We're so obsessed with penis size, "being the best she's ever had", etc. Look at it this way: you're being selfish by concentrating on yourself. True men will forget about themselves for a blissful 15-20 minutes and just give their everything to their partner. All they want is you. Can't you just give it to them?
Sex is something that becomes less and less significant as you get older. The experience of sex however will make or break a relationship in the long run. If you simply had sex that was animalistic and emotionless, then you're the partner who you're going to be sleeping next to is someone who you'll find has been a stranger your entire life. Emotions are often accompanied by flaws. Each relationship goes through different emotions and has different flaws. Your relationship will be different. Have a sex life with lots of emotion and you will find that the love you have with your partner will never wane.
Long-term relationships are a challenge for a lot of people. Many people just never make it because their relationship is held together by falsities. That, or they aren't together because they love each other. By avoiding the 3 above traps and following the love relationship advice in this page, hopefully, you will find and keep the one you love.
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