Let us explore some great information to help maintain a healthy
loving relationship even with money problems. Before we get started, it
should be noted that one of the main reasons couples separate or seek a
divorce is because of money problems. For many, maintaining a healthy
loving relationship can be a huge undertaking in the face of a financial
crisis. Within this crisis, much attention is focused on lack of funds
to fulfill obligations, therefore creating stressful situations
affecting many areas of the relationship. The breakdown of
communication, the desire for love and trust are fueled by feelings of
guilt, anger, depression and low self-esteem. This can seem like falling
into a bottomless pit with no way of being rescued.
Acknowledge your love
The most important step in being successful at maintaining a loving relationship is to acknowledge the love of self and for each other. Take note that love of self is mentioned first. It is crucial in having a clear sense of who you are and loving all that you are. This alone will allow open channels of positive communication with your partner. Acknowledge the love you have for your partner. If the shine of love has dulled, polish it to rekindle the fire that was there before. Rekindling helps remove contrast and creates a platform for working together as a team.
Trust
Trust will require extreme attention. Once trust has become a solid force in a relationship, financial decisions can be communicated and acted upon with ease. The challenge here is to let go of ego. Realize that both of you are reaching for the same goal... dissolving the crisis. You will want to establish a safe arena to explore one another's possibilities for changes. It can take some effort in knocking down the walls of ego but with continued commitment, you may find any crisis easy to manage.
Positive communication
There is nothing more evident in any relationship than to have positive communication. This can set the tone and foundation of uplifting emotions, well- being and creativity. In order to move forward collectively and constructively beyond the walls of financial constriction, there has to be a united front of equality and balance of power. Meaning each partner must have an equal voice or say and have the ability execute any matters at hand. Yet, both partners must be willing to yield to the other if incapable of managing any situations. Convey kindness in words spoken. Communicate by using positive constructive feedback...there is no room for harsh criticism.
Value of love
Granted, financial crisis's can cripple relationships but all too often it also takes away the incomparable value of being in love. By acknowledging love, having trust, and using positive communication, you will have invested much wealth of love into the relationship. Eventually, this strong bond can help overcome any money challenges.
Acknowledge your love
The most important step in being successful at maintaining a loving relationship is to acknowledge the love of self and for each other. Take note that love of self is mentioned first. It is crucial in having a clear sense of who you are and loving all that you are. This alone will allow open channels of positive communication with your partner. Acknowledge the love you have for your partner. If the shine of love has dulled, polish it to rekindle the fire that was there before. Rekindling helps remove contrast and creates a platform for working together as a team.
Trust
Trust will require extreme attention. Once trust has become a solid force in a relationship, financial decisions can be communicated and acted upon with ease. The challenge here is to let go of ego. Realize that both of you are reaching for the same goal... dissolving the crisis. You will want to establish a safe arena to explore one another's possibilities for changes. It can take some effort in knocking down the walls of ego but with continued commitment, you may find any crisis easy to manage.
Positive communication
There is nothing more evident in any relationship than to have positive communication. This can set the tone and foundation of uplifting emotions, well- being and creativity. In order to move forward collectively and constructively beyond the walls of financial constriction, there has to be a united front of equality and balance of power. Meaning each partner must have an equal voice or say and have the ability execute any matters at hand. Yet, both partners must be willing to yield to the other if incapable of managing any situations. Convey kindness in words spoken. Communicate by using positive constructive feedback...there is no room for harsh criticism.
Value of love
Granted, financial crisis's can cripple relationships but all too often it also takes away the incomparable value of being in love. By acknowledging love, having trust, and using positive communication, you will have invested much wealth of love into the relationship. Eventually, this strong bond can help overcome any money challenges.
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